I have this bug that looks like a bee someone know what it is?

Question:it is long has one pair of wings i dont think it has a stinger and its head is smaller then a bee and i dont think it can fly

Answers:
Does it hover? I could be a hover fly.
They look an awful lot like bees.
Check out this site and see if this is your guy.
http://lakewhatcom.wsu.edu/gardenkit/top...

Okay, my only other guess is a flying ant.
How about this? http://images.search.yahoo.com/search/im...

Okay, one more guess. Its it a termite?
take a look at this one.
http://images.search.yahoo.com/images/vi...

Can you post a pic for us to see? It would make identification much easier.