Why is she treating me this way?
Question:One of my friends is acting like shes mad at me and im not shur why, but i think one of my other so caled friends is making up stuff about me and now there both ignoring me and spreading a lie about me that i dont know about!!! what should i do because if i talk to her about it and she not mad at me she will get mad because i would think that she would actually do something like that to me. but if i dont then this problem will continue. HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!...
Answers:
talk to her about it..it's the best way to do it..i learned from experience..dont accuse her of anything! but maybe just ask her or let her know that you feel like things are a little weird between the two of you or you feel you are both distant and if there's something you should worry about..if you bring it up this way you are not accusing her of anything..good luck! i hope things get better
Boy have I been there! Sounds like high school bollocks to me!
ask her! If she is your friend she will understand. But my instict is saying she is not. Please don't waste your time on wankers. I did that just to be popular at school. Be true to yourself.
They sound horrible. They will respect you more if you sit them down and say -forgive me if I am wrong but I am not stupid and I can tell something is going on-have I done something wrong? Are you sure they are not lies? It will probably be something to do with men/boys!! They are probably jealous. Focus on your talents DO NOT WASTE YOUR ENERGY!
See what happens and go with your instinct. They are plenty of decent people out there and if there arent any at your school or college then branch out.
I know you know what I am saying. I know you have a special talent, you must nuture that as much as you can....put your energy into something that matters. These people wont be your friends for long.
Good Luck Babe-let me know what happens.
x
Talk to her! If she's truly your friend she will talk back.Tell her to be honest. Sounds like someones jealous over a boy to me! They ,or whoever wants the attention your getting.Do you have a boy like likes you? If you do, I'm sure that's the reason.it's always over a boy, or new clothes, or your just plain cute! THERE JEALOUS! Don't worry about it, if she were really a friend,she wouldn't let the other girl say mean things about you.Ignore them,act like it doesn't bother you in the least. Than when they figure out it doesn't ,they'll either stop or make up something new. They just want to make you feel bad. Don't let them have the satisfaction! Just act normal and smile. That will really get to them!
More Related Questions & Answers...