Is it normal to miss your old house?
Question:i just recently moved out with some friends and i've been missing my old house alot. Is this normal? i don't know if i can get used to my new apartment but i have bad relationships with the people who live in my old house.. i just miss how my old house worked
Answers:
Of course it is normal..It was your comfort zone..you may not always point ouy 1 thing that you miss the most about your old house but it more of the whole house that you are used to.
For me it is. When we changed apartments, moved across the parking lot, I had a lot of separation anxiety. I cried. Our new apt wasn't "home". My kids had done a lot of growing up in the first apt, holidays, family stuff, and just a life passage for us all. So MY reaction may have been a bit extreme, but yeah, you have to acclimate to your new surroundings and make them "home" now.
yes it is normal because you're somewhat get attachment to it. it's a part of your life and memory of course.
mabey if it was a nice house even though you have had bad relationships those were in the past just thing about whats happening in present time and just use the same work type in your apartment if you can
Oh I think its perfectly normal, I mean once you are used to a system and become comfortable with that system then leaving it
may be difficult. I mean if you do not ever get used to your apartment after awhile then thats not normal. I kind of don't like my house that much either but let me tell you, there's no place like home..
i still really really miss my old house and its been seven years. its okay though, its normal. you might get over missing it, you might not, but soon you will come to love wherever you live, as long as you try and make it your own. add some personal touches in your apartment to make it more homey.
for sure it is normal to miss your old house. even if you have bad realationships there.
it is a new place to be and you are going to have to get used to this place as well.
I don't miss the old house but I do regret saying "goodbye" to the trees and the garden I planted
The house I grew up in was really a shack, even then. My first husband laid the tile in the kitchen, when my parents still lived there. After my dad died my mother moved out, and my second husband and I lived there in our first year of marriage. Mother sold it after we moved out. It was a rent house for years. Now, after 40 years, it's empty, unloved and uncared for, just standing there waiting to fall down. I peeked in the windows last year, and saw that the tile laid by #1 and the tile I laid when I was 15 is still there. Last week I saw the back door hanging open. I really want to check if the old claw-footed bathtub is still there, but I won't. When my house burned last year, I saw a sign on it's door. "Make me an offer -- PLEASE!" I spent a miserable childhood there. It's the home place.
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