Is my bed to small for my room?
Question:I have been having trouble sleeping well and sleeping at all since I moved into my new apartment. I have been having horribly vivid dreams that seem to last forever. I am tired at work and have headaches seemingly due to lack of sleep. Also since I moved there my boyfriend can't sleep in the bed with me. I suspect the position of the tiny bed in the MUCH LARGER room might be throwing us off. What can I do to help figure out why this is happenening?
Answers:
Could be, but it's hard to say. Look into some Feng Shui books.
Here are the top 10 DO NOTs of bed placement:
1. DO NOT place your bed under an exposed beam. Sleeping under a beam causes ill health, bad luck and relationship problems, i.e. back-stabbing and jealousy.
2. DO NOT place your bed under a window. If your bed is placed immediately under a window, then support is sorely lacking. The rush of chi from the window also causes restless sleep.
3. DO NOT place your bed between two doors. Anyone sleeping between two doors will be attacked by huge amounts of harmful shar chi that rush in one door and out the next.
4. DO NOT place your bed with the head or foot pointed at a door. This is known as the "coffin position," and it drains away all your good luck and energy.
5. DO NOT place your bed against the lavatory wall. The harmful yin energy from the toilet will bring about ill health and loss of opportunities for success.
6. DO NOT place your bed below a bathroom/toilet bowl. Having the toilet above you when you sleep causes loss of money and opportunities and also poses danger to health and relationships.
7. DO NOT place your bed above the kitchen stove. Bedrooms located above the kitchen or dining room are afflicted with immense bad luck. Sleeping above food that is cooked for the family is bad, but having the fire below is disastrous.
8. DO NOT place your bed above the garage/storeroom. A bedroom located above a garage or a storeroom lacks a base and is dreadfully affected by the bad luck of emptiness and lack of substance. Success will be elusive and things will not go according to plan
9. DO NOT place your bed opposite a mirror. Mirrors in the bedroom that reflect the sleeping couple suggest the intrusion of third parties, encouraging infidelity and thereby causing much stress between husband and wife
10. DO NOT place your bed facing open shelves. Shelves constitute poison arrows, which send out a lot of shar chi, thus causing misfortune, ill health, quarrels, loss of money and opportunities.
its probably just new place jitters . It could be the placment too sometimes its about the direction your bed is currently in
example if your head board organally was north but now it faces west it could be that your bodies are not used to sleeping that way, its due to the diffrent gravatational pulls from n,s,e,w you know the basic concept of a compass well your body has a internal one.
wow does feng shui leave anywhere you can place your bed?
you haven't said how long you have been there but when i got a new bed with a really high sprung mattress i found it hard to sllep for the first week or so because i felt really aware of how high i was and it felt really weird...but this did pass and perfectly ok now.
i would look at the level of the bed and check it isn't slanted so your head is lower than your feet because years ago we moved and this happenned and slept badly for a week or so before we realised, but once we slept at the opposite way round in bed it was fine...
maybe try tacking some light muslin/voile/silk/curtain material around the bed to create a more intimate space and see if this helps...this may be easier if you moved the bed into a corner as you would only need to put up 2 sides of material..it could be fun, making it a bit like a 4 poster bed...
wish you luck..
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