Just painted and hubby doesn't like color....?
Question:ok i just had stucco added to my whole house so right now it is a concrete look half painted with texture and my hubby made the workers stop working and won't pay them because he doesn't like the color. I choose the color and he ok'd it before now he doesn't like it..and all the left over texture could be used and we paint over that, but he doesn't even want to finish it with the supply we have.Im tired of him not making up his mind and we have to do double work and spend double the price. What the heck am I suppose to do??
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He agreed to it. I would raise hell if I were you!
Unless you guys are rich..Hubby needs to get it together have them finish the job. Beause its not going to look any better when they tear it down. Also you can change the color letter.
OOOHH my husband used to do that sort of crap too..he has his chance and didnt want to be involved so you made the choice and he ok d it..he has to stick with it. My husband used todo that with christmas shopping..didnt have an idea or care what i got people..but never liked what i bought. This whole concept is like voting..if you dont go vote, then you cant compain about the president. I would finish the job..give it two years..if he still hates it..redo it. He is being childish and dramatic. Good luck hon.
Leave it ALL to him.
Don't get pulled into the whole mess.
Step back and let him do it all. Let him work it out himself.
He "makes a mess", let him clean it up!
This is being done for total control. Let it sit. What difference does it make. You tell him that it is up to him to finish it the best way he knows how, it's his baby. Then walk away from it.
It seems to me that this man likes control. Yes, he lets you decide, then gets in there and ruins it. Give it back to him, its what he deserves.
Most people don't like the color of walls immediately after it is done. This happened with my neighbor. She had spent about a week picking out the perfect color for her living room and when it was finally done, she didn't like it. But after a week or so she got more used to it and ended up loving it again. Just tell him while it may seem bad now, because it's new and he's not used to it, it will probably grow back on him later once you both have adjusted to it. Plus you are going to end up wasting alot of money if you don't finish what you have already started.
Sounds like you have two choices: Change the color or Get rid of hubby.
Show him some other sample choices. Let him show the workers what he wants.
He may delay paying them but to not pay them for the work they did is not an option. Ain't life grand. Good luck.
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