A different sort of bedroom problem.?
Question:What does one do if a virgin is still a virgin 6 months after marriage because it hurts???
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Yahoo remembers the last question you asked, and automatically starts your current question in the same category. Click a different category before you submit question. Now, it sounds as if you have an excessively thick hymen. Its rare, but it does happen. A doctor can stretch it for you. You must have an incredibly understanding husband if he hasn't yet demanded that you see a Doctor and have it taken care of. You know, some guys would force it. You may just have a real keeper.
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Go see a doctor right away.
oh wow.. it probably shouldnt be like that after that long. But usually after the first 1-2 times after doin it.. it doesnt hurt anymore.. my advice would be to go to the gyno or your family doctor and explain to him the situation.. sorry if this didnt help!
Your doctor can open it so it wont hurt.Or use KY jelly..lots of it
Take the pain, girlfriend.
i'm afraid i was in the same situation as you, it is painful first couple of times but just relax and let it be done and it is so much easier after. Flippin worth it too!!
Go see the doctor and make sure there is nothing wrong.
Get a referral to a therapist. Many cities have therapists that specialize in helping couples with problems just like this! Look for someone who will talk with and help both of you.
Remember that being honest and putting effort in now may very well save your marriage.
Expect the other half of the problem to put effort in too!
I cannot stress how important it is to get a handle on this NOW before it hurts your marriage or wrecks sex for you.
And don't get down and feel bad because you are having trouble. You two are in it together and you have to fix it together.
assume it is a woman. She is obviously afraid. When we are afraid and expect pain we tense our muscles. Same for first time sex. Ther is a name for it, soehting like vaginamitus or something. She needs to relax there will be a short sharp pain (but not always, sometimes pain free) and thats it, all over.
If it helps get plastered first - or watch a blue movie together, and start by touching and kissing only, and perhaps dont even attempt sex on first time, but build it up gradually
See a doctor who can surgically remove the hymen. It's a standard procedure that can be done in his office. You won't need anasthetic and it won't hurt much. It's very quick and should solve any future "bedroom problems."
See a doctor.your husband will not put up with this for long.
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