Boyfriend doesnt kiss?
Question:I'm dating a guy who is to me amazing, except he wants his first kiss to be with his wife, along with everything else, i understand everything but the kissing thing i'm having trouble with, weve been together for about 3 months now, and he has kissed me on the cheek once, that is it, i really like him and i guess i'm willing to deal with it, but t does bother me, and eventually i'm sure will bother me even more, i dont know what to do. he is very religious, but it doesnt say in the bible anywhere that kissing out of wedlock is bad.. its his own thing i guess?? what can i do
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If he does not like to do this then you better think how your sex life might be later boring.
You should be glad guys like that still exist. It's not that there's nothing in the bible that says you can't kiss, but you should know that kissing CAN lead to other things, right ? Some people say they won't go all the way but if they're weak a kiss will lead to doing the whole thing.
try to tell him that kissing is just natural
tell him like he kissed his mom so why not u
Well, if you love him, you really have to respect him and wait for the wedding day.
Maybe he's gay.
Sounds a little extreme to me, but really the only thing you can do is respect his choice. Think of how you would feel if the roles were reversed and he was trying to force you to do something you didn't want to do.
Ask him for one kiss then try to change him to another BF !!
i dated a guy like that for about a year. we never did end up kissing. it was when i was in highschool and i think that it did affect our relationship. if he has his mind set on it there is probably no way of changing him. so i guess you have to decide if he is worth the wait or if you just have to different of an opinion on intimacy. good luck. and just so you know, the guy ended up dumping me, not me him. ya it sucked i was pretty pissed i didn't end it first.
Dumb him. It's not a relationaship if there is no affection. And he cares more about his stupid religious rules than you. So why should you care about him and neglect your own needs?
Not knowing your ages, I'm curious if he wants his first kiss to be at his wedding or when he finds the woman he intends to marry... Many religions interpret the Bible in different ways, so it's possible his religious culture forbids/looks down upon this, or perhaps he has other reasons not to have any physical contact with a woman. For some kissing is incredibly person or sexual, and he may not be ready for that kind of intimacy.
he may just de ole fashioned but he nay not have a damn thing rong w/him any questions just talk to each other , ask questions!!!
WHY IS THIS QUESTION IN THE CLEANING
AND LAUNDRY SECTION?
DIRTY MOUTH?
TRY ORBIT GUM.
girl you confront him like the weirdo he is.you know nothing god or religions or being active in the church in general, but these "very religious" types are what us normal people call jesus freaks... or ******* psychopaths
i think u should talk to him
Wow, cleaning and laundry is more interesting than I thought!
Sounds to me like he's got physical contact issues.
If you like him and think it's worth it, you'll have to wait him out, but what would concern me is that if you were to get married ~ what happens if there is NO physical spark between you?
That's an important part of married life, and I do think you should have some idea whether there is a chance you will 'mesh'. (Not necessarily sex, but just kissing, etc, to see if the chemistry is there).
Hope it works out for you!
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