Hoovering and house work?
Question:My husband makes me hoover every day at 8 oclock, it must be done by then,that includes all housework. Do you think he is wrong to make me do this.
Answers:
Is he a little old fashioned?, women doing the house work by 8am was a 1950/60s thing. This doesn't happen nowadays. I would say that a woman's place is in the home, but the work doesn't have to be done by 8, although it must be done by the time i get in from work, otherwise there would be a drop in the wages.
Maybe he just fancies takin u from behind just before he goes to work..hence the 8am.
tell him to cook and wash up by 6,see how he likes it
Yes. He sounds like a control freak. Why would you put up with that?
i think hes living in the 1950s !! i think you should do it when your ready and he should help whats the rush? i am a stay at home mum my other half works but thats as traditional as it gets i clean and tidy everyday whan i can no fuss is made if i dont vac everyday etc its not that important within reason! i think your hubby should come live with me for a week!! he sounds very demanding you should put your foot down dont be taken for granted!
oh my god. dont even get me started on this!Lol
i absolutely dispise men who think women should do what they tell them!! i cook,clean and do washing when i like and not before!! if my partener told me that, i would tell him to **** right off and he knows it!! grrrr it irritates me like crazy!chauvinist bastards. tell him to get off his **** and do it! god, umbelievable! x
Its only right if you like doing it. A house doesn't need vacuuming every day. Once a week is fine unless your house is really messy. It is your decision to do it not his.
Why? What is his reason?
It soundds very odd to me. Tell him "no" and see what he does.
tell him to do it before he goes to bed at night and that gives you a wee break in the morning of course he is wrong.
Yes he is wrong for making you do this. Put your foot down and say if you want me to do this I will providing that you help me. If you are not willing to help then i will do it when I want to, not when you want me to.
Yes. He's a jerk. Divorce seems the best option.
Of course he is wrong. Back in the 50s it might have been the way things were done, but certainly not now! What happens if it's not done? Does he expect his meals in front of him at set times as well?
In fact, the more I think about this, the more concerned I am.
He sounds like a bit of bully to me.
As a guy, I would NEVER order a woman to do anything - ever.
It would be completely wrong to do so.
Yes it wrong.. and it sounds like he is way too controlling... but i have to ask...what will he do if you don't get it done? You are equals that is what a marriage is. He should treat you the way you treat him. I am a stay at home girlfriend (live together but not married) and i have no problem doing all the house work because he works but i would never let him tell me i have to do something. That is not acceptable. Nobody should ever be telling you what to do, ever. If he wants the house cleaned, let him do it. There is no need to vacuum ever day! It doesn't sound like a very good relationship and the way you ask that makes it seem like your husband has all the power. If i were you, and i have been in controlling relationships, i would get out of it. I was in a relationship where i got hit when i didn't do what i was told. IF that is the case with you.please...leave him.
There is no right or wrong way to clean, as long as it's clean. Maybe he makes you do this because he was alergies or he knows that in the past you've had a tendance to not clean very well.
if thats true then you should give him a swift kick in the balls!
Hmm...all housework, including hoovering, to be done by 8am? As www.cuteoverload.com would say - that's redonkulous!
If he wants it done by 8am *every* day, let him do it! Of course, if it were his responsibility, I'm sure he'd purchase a Roomba.
Do yourself a favor & tell him what he can do with the hoover (and I don't mean something nice, pleasant, or painless).
Good luck!
You must be joking, no-one obeys their husband like that any more. Tell him where to go love.
So whilst you are slaving , what is your husband doing. Tell him to do it, He wrong for making you do this , and your wrong for doing it. You are the woman of the house , so you decide when and if you want to do thing´s..If he is not happy with that , then tell him to do it himself
Hi,
Do what I do wee magg,
I work professionaly enough to get a house cleaner in., Miele vac and yellow duster with polish in hand.
Oven squirted with dear knows what, some potion to shine up the windows, and all for less than half a days pay. Bliss and Bless.
She is now a family freind, and got tiddled at my birthday thing. Fair play.
I am not a wealthy bloke, but am happy in delegating things.
I work for others at their beck and call, and just pass some of that on.
I would not comment on your personal relationship, it is none of my business, but stick a hoover in his palm, and say "your turn !"
Blokes should not be confined to fiddling with hammers & screwdrivers.. I do the cooking, and enjoy it.
All the best to you both,
Bob.
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