I have this friend that doesnt like to bath, she is so smelly!! please help me!?
Question:
Answers:
If she is not too sensitive, I would go ahead and say something to her. She is just giving everyone a reason to make fun by not bathing. If you think that would hurt her feelings I would try introducing her to knew bath products or perfume causually and maybe that would spark her interest and get her to shower!
Um, don't hang out with her and she'll get the idea.
well, its a girl so b sensitive. u could write a note, include deoderant/soap/perfume, and tell her its best if she start taaking a bath/shower. if u guys r young, its just a phase, shell grow out of it.
Has she ever been sexually abused? some women will become gross to send the opposite sex in another direction once they are abused.
You have to be a friend and tell her immediately. Tell her to do it for her sake as well as others. Yuck!
I would tell her honestly and tactfully. Please be sensitive, as this is a 'sensitive' issue. If you are good friends it should be ok. Good luck!
Sometimes this is a symptom of a developing mental illness. Does she exhibit any other odd behavior? Like is she compulsive about things, and/or act inappropriately in public?
Maybe go to Bath and Body type store get a few sample sizes of different scents for bath gels and surprise her. I had one friend who had a serious prob. with sweat had to deal with dr.
DO WHAT I DID ONCE AND LEAVE SOME SOAP AND DEODORANT IN THE FRONT SEAT OF HER CAR
be for real. tell her to take a shower. dont be fake about it.
tell her look your my friend and i want to tell you something but
dont get up set with me. PLEASE TAKE A SHOWER.
that is just one thing i hate is to be fake about something.
if she gets mad it will be for a while then it will blow over.
good luck
if u hang with someone who smell's like abig old nasty fart u need help u want get here bubba
ask her if she would like to go swimming in the local pool,you bring all the shower gel soap shampoo and tell her she'll need to use them as the chlorine isn't good for her skin,then tell her how nice she smells and it would be nice if she could smell like that all the time or you could just simply tell her she smells and you don't want to be with her when she's like that.
oh oh oh, I got it. just get really smelly yourself for one day and see if she says something to you about it. then you can say something to her at the same time.
Seriously.... ask God to talk to her. He will do it without hurting her feelings.
I know a wonderful young woman who recieved a letter in the mail telling her to gain weight cause she was thin. The letter was anonymous. It really hurt the young woman to be told by an anonymous letter.
I have asked God to tell people things and he always has. Just ask him to speak to her about personal hygiene.
Because if you tell her, she might really be hurt and we don't want to hurt her.
A very smelly man in this church was chased down the street by an older woman who said he smelled, (which he did.). with deodorant in her hand waving it and yelling at him saying..."Please brother Larry, just try this..." but he never did and was really embarrassed by her doing this.
God will do it, he really will.
If you really care about her then you need to tell her. It might hurt her for the moment but she would appreciate you for being honest with her.
I would send her a basket full of different soaps, shampoos, and deodorants. Also some different perfumes, body wash and jell wash. I wouldn't sign my name to it tho.
More Related Questions & Answers...