Stupid but stubborn way of living?
Question:my husband always blames me in everyhing wih sarcastic words. now he insists that i should wash all the dishes with the least water and use the water for rinsing the dishes to clean the household. i think its too dirty and doesnt fit my habbit. i hate this marriage.
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Dump the water and the husband.
This, in cleaning and laundry? Why not. You're airing YOUR dirty laundry, ha ha. I feel so awful for you. Is he honestly that stingy? You should write a humorous book about him. Make everything funny about it, for your sanity's sake, hon. Laugh about it. If you're going to ride it out, that's the way.
While water conservation can be easy, changing habits can be very difficult. Tell him you'll compromise, using the rinse water to water plants inside and out (no, soap will not hurt them). Explain to him that the best thing to clean with is vinegar and water. Keep s spray bottle of this handy.
There are hundreds of uses for vinegar!
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First, if you're miserable get rid of him! life is too short and this is your only chance!
Secondly, even if you did what he said you would be living in a gross house also, is this really what you want?
I would tell your husband if he thinks that's such a great idea he should go right on ahead and do it. (Then I'd pack my bags and leave, but that's just me.)
You need marriage counseling. You are married to a miser. I would get out now.
Way I broke my husband is I went on strike .. he had to wash his own dishes and laundry and clean the house, i stayed with my dad for a week...if that dont work dump him outside with the water.
I clean houses and your husband is thinking of paying the bills. I am with you the dishwater would be too dirty. If he does not like the way you clean tell him to clean from now on......
My guess is that this is just the tip of the iceburg - if he won't go for marriage counselling, and you don't want to live like this...get going and don't look back.
Then dump him.
tell him if he wants you to cinserve water, you will use the dirty dish water to mop the floors with.. and then to save even more water, you can use it to make his meals.. dish floor soup anyone? eww :P
I agree with you! If I were you I would tell HIM to do the dishes, just keeping a special set of dishes and silver for myself that I would keep clean and put away where HE can't use them! Just my 2 cents.
Then get out of it! Let him clean his own house with dirty water.
I agree with Steve, dump him. or tell him to clean the house himself
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